By Stuart Kerr, Technology Correspondent
📅 Published: 8 July 2025 | 🔄 Last updated: 8 July 2025
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Swipe Right on Deception: The Rise of Algorithmic Romance
Romance is no longer a matter of chance. It’s become a matter of code. On today’s dating apps, artificial intelligence is not just helping people connect—it’s mimicking, manipulating, and, increasingly, scamming them. Deepfakes, chatbot-generated conversations, and AI-curated profiles have created a romantic minefield where falling in love may mean falling into a trap.
According to Cyber Magazine, romance scams are up 72% this year. AI isn’t just assisting lonely hearts—it’s automating emotional deception at scale.
When Lovebots Take the Lead
Modern scams rarely start with a crude message or bad grammar. They start with charm. And AI has charm in abundance.
McAfee’s recent report, aptly titled “AI Love You”, revealed that over one-third of users now believe an AI chatbot could convincingly emulate romantic interest. Many already have.
These bots pull from thousands of conversations, writing tailored replies in seconds. Some even imitate the emotional tone of their target. What begins as light flirting can evolve into financial manipulation—all powered by natural language processing and user behaviour modelling.
As shown in LiveAIWire’s earlier piece, humans often struggle to distinguish between genuine and machine-generated emotional expression. That uncertainty is now being exploited.
Facial Fakery and the New Catfish
The visual side of deception is just as sophisticated. AI-generated profile photos, synthetic face-swaps, and deepfake video calls are becoming standard tools in the scammer’s arsenal. As outlined in Facia.ai’s recent blog, even live video chats can now be faked in real time—using models trained on just a handful of public images.
The Washington Post’s recent feature, “AI Is Making Everyone on Dating Apps Sound Charming”, underscores how filters and AI-generated bios are blurring the line between authentic and artificial. In an age of auto-enhancement, how can users know who—or what—they’re speaking to?
This problem doesn’t stop at fake beauty. It extends to fake trust, fake accents, and even AI-generated children and family photos used to build credibility.
Targeting the Vulnerable with Precision
Romance scams have always preyed on the lonely, but AI adds a chilling twist: precision targeting. Algorithms scrape social media profiles to find users most likely to respond emotionally or financially. Widowed? Divorced? Recently active in religious forums? The AI knows—and adapts accordingly.
The Turing Centre’s report shows how LLMs (Large Language Models) can be fine-tuned to imitate dialect, religious phrasing, or even regional slang—giving scams a frightening degree of cultural fluency.
This weaponisation of empathy mirrors tactics explored in LiveAIWire’s piece on emotional AI, where we asked: if AI can feel, what stops it from manipulating?
Lawmakers and Platforms: A Step Behind
The challenge is global—and regulatory frameworks are behind the curve. Most dating apps have not implemented real-time AI detection tools. And many governments are only beginning to explore the legal grey zones around digital impersonation.
A peer-reviewed academic paper from the University of Huddersfield highlights the gaps: there’s no unified law governing AI-based romantic fraud, and few enforcement bodies have the expertise or capacity to trace transnational scams.
Some platforms are trialling countermeasures—like facial liveness checks or voiceprint verification—but uptake is slow and often opt-in only.
Reclaiming Trust in the Age of Digital Romance
Despite the risks, users are still swiping. The convenience and promise of AI-curated matches are too compelling. But as machine-generated deception becomes harder to detect, the burden of discernment increasingly falls on the user.
Education campaigns and digital literacy are part of the answer. So are platform design choices—like flagging suspicious profile behaviour or limiting chatbots to opt-in zones. But ultimately, we may need to re-evaluate the very promise of online connection.
Is a match worth making if you can’t verify the messenger?
Conclusion: Love in the Time of Algorithms
The intersection of AI and romance is both thrilling and dangerous. Tools that once brought people together are now being reverse-engineered to tear down trust, fabricate identity, and monetise vulnerability.
What’s needed isn’t just stronger laws—it’s smarter platforms, clearer transparency, and an urgent redefinition of authenticity in the age of artificial emotion.
About the Author
Stuart Kerr is the Technology Correspondent at LiveAIWire, reporting on the intersection of AI, identity, and society.
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