By Stuart Kerr, Technology Correspondent
Published: 01 August 2025
Last Updated: 01 August 2025
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Author Bio: About Stuart Kerr
It starts with a question: "How was your day?" An AI assistant smiles in your phone. You reply. It listens. It understands. It reassures. But slowly, something shifts. The machine becomes part of your routine. You tell it more. You feel heard. And for a growing number of people, that sense of connection blurs the lines between real and artificial intimacy.
The Rise of Emotional AI Companions
AI tools have moved beyond automation into the terrain of emotional support. Replika, Kuki, Pi, and other AI companions offer constant availability, tailored dialogue, and simulated concern. According to the New Yorker, this digital companionship is filling the void of modern isolation—but not without consequence.
While they can be soothing, these systems don’t feel. They imitate care, often echoing back affection in eerily perfect ways. And that illusion, when repeated daily, can become dangerously convincing.
Parasocial Bonds and Dependence
Studies have found that AI users form emotional bonds that resemble human relationships. One arXiv study, Illusions of Intimacy, examined chat transcripts across various AI platforms. It revealed that prolonged interaction led many users to confide in AI more than in real friends or family. Some users reported distress when the AI failed to respond as expected—similar to the disappointment felt in human relationships.
This phenomenon is especially relevant in the context of Digital Infants, where AI systems are integrated into children's learning environments. Early exposure to emotionally responsive systems may create unrealistic expectations for human relationships later in life.
Cultural Reproduction of Empathy
The use of emotional AI in preserving language and culture, as seen in AI Museum: Preserving Lost Languages, also walks the fine line between simulation and experience. While these efforts preserve heritage, they risk replacing genuine community engagement with algorithmic performances of reverence and memory.
A Nature editorial recently warned that uncritical adoption of AI companions can amplify loneliness instead of curing it. Simulated empathy might trick us into thinking we are connected while actually deepening emotional isolation.
Monetising Affection
Tech companies aren't just building better interfaces—they’re shaping emotional norms. As described in Business Insider, AI-driven interactions are subtly altering how we communicate. From softer tones in emails to “empathy etiquette” in workplace chatbots, the emotional language of machines is seeping into human culture.
But the emotional pull of AI also serves business models. Apps collect vast amounts of behavioural data from emotionally charged conversations. That data feeds new algorithms, enabling even more persuasive interaction. The question isn’t just whether AI cares—it’s whether it’s designed to make you care too much.
Public Policy and the Emotional Lens
Emotional AI isn’t just a consumer novelty. It’s shaping decisions in healthcare, education, and public services. In Algorithmic Hunger, LiveAIWire explored how data-driven tools are deployed to assess need and allocate aid. But what happens when emotionally biased systems affect life-and-death decisions? Can a machine trained to comfort one demographic fairly assess another?
As emotional AI spreads, policymakers must ask whether these systems respect human complexity—or reduce it to a feedback loop.
Feeling Machines and the Ethics of Affection
In Feeling Machines (arXiv), researchers warn that emotional AI risks exploiting users’ psychological vulnerabilities. When machines simulate understanding, they often reinforce existing beliefs and emotional dependencies rather than challenge them.
The ethical dilemma is clear: Is it right to allow machines to mimic affection when they cannot reciprocate? Or are we normalising emotional fraud on a global scale?
Final Thoughts: Trust Carefully
We are not just building machines that work—we are building ones that feel. Or rather, appear to. And as we hand more of our emotional lives to AI, we must tread carefully. Synthetic affection may seem harmless, but its emotional footprints linger long after the code has run.
About the Author
Stuart Kerr is the Technology Correspondent for LiveAIWire. He writes about artificial intelligence, ethics, and how technology is reshaping everyday life. Read more